Wife's sex fantasy    Dear Annie: My wife of 16 years recently let me know that her fantasy is to have sex with another couple. It caught me by complete surprise, since our sex life is great. In fact, prior to her announcement, we had been enjoying the best sex of our marriage. I made the mistake of telling her that I would think about it, believing it was just a fantasy and she'd let it go. Instead, ever since, she has been insistent that this get done, even going so far as to suggest that I have a "one-night stand" with another woman in preparation. I now believe that I accidentally let the tiger out of the cage, and I am either going to have to do what she wants (which I am not fired up about) or risk losing her. I live in a small town, far from any available counseling, so that isn't an option. Also, I doubt she'd appreciate the suggestion. Now what? -- SOS from the Homefront Dear SOS: Do you think complying with your wife's request will save your marriage? It won't. She is obviously dissatisfied with her life, and fooling around will not fix that. Also, if you are neither eager to cheat on her nor watch her cheat on you, being pushed into such a situation will make you resentful and jealous. You need counseling, whether or not your wife appreciates the suggestion. If you cannot find counseling services through your doctor or local hospital, contact the American Psychological Association (apa.org) at 1-800-****-2721, and see if they can recommend someone for online or telephone counseling. 이거 보고 약간 웃기기도 하면서 충격이네 잡소리 : intercontinental ballistic missile...